Tired of Shidduch Dates that Go Nowhere?
Get the clarity and structure to date with purpose and move toward marriage with confidence
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Know exactly what to look for in a shidduch
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Date with purpose instead of anxiety
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Make decisions you feel good about
Rabbi Refoel Hershkowitz • 30+ Years Helping Orthodox Singles
What We Do
Many thoughtful singles feel like they’ve done everything right — yet they still lack confidence in their dating decisions.
I work with serious Orthodox singles who are committed to marriage but feel stuck, uncertain, or overwhelmed by the shidduch process.
Through my Conscious Dating framework, I help you gain crystal-clear understanding of:
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What you’re truly looking for in a partner
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What to pay attention to during dating
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How to evaluate a shidduch with confidence
This isn’t about guesswork or relying on chemistry alone. It’s about developing real clarity — so you can move forward with purpose toward the right relationship and a lasting marriage.
You will walk away with:
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✔ Clarity in what you’re truly looking for
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✔ Structure in how you date
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✔ Confidence in your decisions
What We Do
About Me
Meet Rabbi Refoel Hershkowitz
I was once a struggling single myself — doing everything “right” but still feeling stuck and uncertain in the shidduch process.
That experience led me to develop a clearer, more structured approach to dating — what I now call Conscious Dating. Using this framework, I finally found my zivug.
Since then, for over 30 years, I’ve dedicated my life to guiding serious Orthodox singles who want to move from confusion and frustration to clarity and confidence. I’ve advised and helped numerous singles navigate the shidduch world and build strong foundations for marriage.
Why Work With Me:
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Deep understanding of the unique challenges in today’s shidduch dating
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Proven framework focused on clarity, not just chemistry
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Practical, halachically-sensitive guidance
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Personal experience + decades of real-world results
Elite Preparation for a Lifetime of Marriage
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